Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Paw Paw

On Saturday December 24, 2011 the world lost another great man. My paw paw passed away. I was asked by my in-laws to describe my paw paw and tell some stories about him. There are many things that can be said about him and the man he was. Here are the things that I know.

1. He was a hero. He was devoted to our country. He never talked too much about the army, but he served in a loyal and devoted way.
2. He loved my grandma, maybe more than any two people have ever loved. He taught me more about relationships and love than he will ever know. He showed all of his grandchildren how a man should love a woman, and my grandma in turn showed us how a woman should treat the man she loves.
3. He was a good man who did the right thing. Something that is not often found these days.
4. He loved ice milk. The picture is of him feeding me ice milk. He ate it almost every night.
5. He loved Hee Haw. That came with his love for country music. Snooping through his records is how I heard Patsy Cline for the first time.
6. He loved his grandchildren. My Paw Paw couldn't make it through church or even the store without telling someone that I was his grand-daughter and how pretty he thought I was and how smart he thought I was. He was always very proud of everything we did.
7. He had the best lap in the world and we never got too big to sit on it.
8. He was the best tickler ever. There is nothing in the world like being tickled by your grandpa.
9. He did the dishes. I don't know if he did them every night, but when we were there he always did the dishes. And I always wanted to help him. I still can't do dishes without thinking of him.
10. At the end of every meal he would say "turn the covers back Sara" even though no one in our family was named Sara
11. He talked to everyone. It didn't matter who it was, paw paw talked to them. He had a way of making people feel special.
12. He was always like an hour early to church. He rarely went to bible class that I can remember, but no one made it through the doors without him greeting them.
13. He loved to laugh, he was always teasing us or joking with us and every picture I've ever seen of him he always has a huge smile on his face (mouth open of course)
14. He loved peppermints, and candy and chips. And he LOVED my grandma's cooking.
15. He was spoiled to the bone. My grandma made him a hot meal every night, even when he was working at the post office, we would take it to him so it would still be hot... he would let us hold the baby chickens.. it was an even trade.
16. He lived a full life loved by Grandma, my Dad, my Mom, my Aunt Monica and Uncle John, my cousins Matthew and Deanna, my sister Erin and her kids, my brother Dwight and his kids and of course me and thousands of other people.

He was an amazing man, the very definition of a grandpa. Everyone should be blessed enough to have a grandpa like him. I know that God and the angels are so excited to have him in heaven. He is so very very special.

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Gratitude Day 5 - Tough Jobs

I'm a teacher and while that is sometimes an incredibly tough job. I have a great admiration for special ed. teachers. I can't imagine how heart wrenching, exhausting, tough, rewarding and then heart wrenching all over again. It has to be one of the toughest jobs out there.

Gratitude Day 4 - A special nature Spot

This is a weird category... I have to say that the beach is the first thing that comes to mind. I used to love to go out to Galveston and sit on the beach... I also love hill country in Texas!!! Several times after taking an actuary exam I would drive out to Austin or Fredericksburg... Its so peaceful and awesome. I could actually list about a million nature spots in Texas that are awesome. So I'll leave you with those two.

Gratitude Day 3 - Family Member

This is a tough one. I have a lot of family and I have a great family... obviously I am very thankful for Steven who is my family :) I am also so thankful for my parents. They have always been there for me. They are solid and predictable. I always know that there is a place for me wherever they are. I am so thankful for my brother. My brother, the one that I wrote a story about being my hero when I was in second grade. My thoughts on him haven't changed much since second grade. I miss living near him and I love it every time I get to see him! There is no coincidence that in almost every photo we have from my childhood I am cracking up at my brother. What a great friend! I am thankful for my sister. No one can quite explain the bond of sisterhood. Anytime I needed a girls night when I lived in Houston I knew who I could call. When I think back on my childhood there are parts that just crack me up that involve my sister. Like when she got to go see NKOTB on a Wednesday night... man I thought the world might end. Or when we got to work together at the Day Care. Or when I would sneak in her room and watch 90210 with her. Or when we would have "sleepovers" in her room and giggle so loudly and then pretend to be asleep when we thought we heard dad. I could go on and on and this isn't even including my cousins!

Wednesday, November 02, 2011

Gratitude Day 2 - Governing Principles

Well I'm not one to talk about politics really. I learned this from my mother who, even though she refuses to talk about who she voted for yet gets personalized Christmas cards from the Bush's, says that its rude to discuss politics. I actually find that to be quite true. I am thankful that we live in a democracy. Looking at events that are happening around the world. I am glad that women came before me that fought for the right to vote. I am glad that every citizen has the opportunity to be involved in government in one fashion or the other. I am glad that I don't have to worship God in secret and don't have to be scared of voicing my opinions. There are a lot of things that we complain about here in America, but hearing about other governments, I think we have it pretty good.

Tuesday, November 01, 2011

Day 1 - Where you live

Well as many of you (eh who am I kidding.. only two people read this blog)... so as two of you know I live in Oklahoma. I am a Texas girl at heart, through and through. I cried when I had to change my driver's license over. That being said, there are some perks to living in Oklahoma. First of all, I get to live with my husband :) since he lives in Oklahoma, it was kind of important that I be here too. Second, there is less traffic. I feel like this is an understatement. When I lived in Houston, I lived 5 miles away from my work but it took me 20 minutes to get there. It now takes me 5 minutes or less to get to work. Its amazing what can be accomplished when you can make it to church in less than 30 minutes. Third, I'm getting to know and appreciate the music scene here in Oklahoma. One of the things I loved about Houston was that there was always a concert going on somewhere. Its getting to be that way here too and I have a lot of friends from college that are in the music scene here so that's cool too. Finally, I have been able to reconnect with some college friends. I get to coach with one of my roommates from college and see her precious little boy grow up. I was here to experience my other roommate's wedding (although she moved away) it was so great to meet her husband and get to know him. I love my friends and love the people they have become. While I miss my family like crazy (CRAZY) and I miss my friends from Houston... I am thankful to be in a place where values are strong and life is a little slower.

30 Days of Gratitude

In order to revive my blog, I'm going to do the 30 days of gratitude. In honor of Thanksgiving, I've decided to make it about more than just eating and seeing my family... stay tuned for things that I am thankful for...

Monday, May 09, 2011

Wow how long has it been?

So I'm back! Over the past year I have thought of many things I needed to blog, but then I just haven't. I'll just try to catch you up on here as much as I can. So... I got married, its been great. Living with a boy is interesting but I married into a great family and its been wonderful. I moved. I no longer live in the great state of Texas! I can't even believe it my self. I definitely cried when I gave up my license... more on that to come.

I've also started super fun things. like couponing and budgeting AND scrapbooking.. I'm finally a real grown up :)

So that's me in a nutshell.. stay tuned!